Kippy and her friend Karen

My sister Kippy, title character in my book, The Girl Who Talked Too Much, loved going to the beach, and she loved my friend Karen. Here they are enjoying a moment after my son Dirk’s informal wedding on a Florida Gulf beach.

Come to Mitchell’s Coffee House this coming Saturday from 2-4 for my book-signing. Besides The Girl Who Talked Too Much, I’ll have my other work, American Governess and two poetry chapbooks.

1902 At the 49th Precinct…

When my grandfather was an Intern at Brooklyn Hospital in 1902, he served as Ambulance Surgeon for the first six months. He was called to the 49th Precinct to bandage the arm of this woman who looks extremely irritated about being there. He recorded that he stitched and bandaged a laceration, but did not explain more, so we’re left to speculate why she was arrested.

It was during this time that he met my grandmother, who was training as a nurse, and became Head Operating Room nurse the following year, a story you can follow in my new book, The Girl Who Talked Too Much.

Mark your calendars for November 29, when I’ll be having a book signing at Mitchell’s Coffee House downtown. Come in for delicious coffee and yummies, and take a look at my books.

1902 – My grandmother, the nurse

She’s the second nurse in from the right, a petite young woman who, by the next year became Head Operating Room Nurse at Brooklyn Hospital. Notice that the nurses wore a square of gauze cloth, folded and tied on their heads instead of caps. She hated that, and designed a nurses’ cap that was adopted by the hospital a year or two later.

In this photo, three surgeons are reconstructing the patient’s right hand. The anesthesiologist is seen at the head of the patient, manipulating the ether cone. I was amused to see that the doctors are using the patient as a table for their instruments, as I know has been done with me a time or two.

My grandmother was 25, and had come from Bermuda alone to train as a nurse. She later married a doctor she met at the hospital. She was a British subject, but acquired American citizenship as well as a result of her marriage. Read her story in my new book, The Girl Who Talked Too Much.

Quite a capable woman, and yet neither she nor any other woman in this country had the right to vote in elections until 1920, when the 19th amendment was passed.

Where we grew up….

In this photo, Linda is picking Kippy up at the Winter Haven house where we spent our childhood. It’s still there, but not in the family anymore. Our grandmother Towa had it built in 1925 after she was widowed, and we came to live there when our father was overseas during World War II, and later when our parents divorced.

I’ve been reading through The Girl Who Talked Too Much, looking for errors that need to be corrected. Since it was done as Print On Demand, I didn’t have to have a print run of thousands made, and revisions can be made through Kindle Direct Publishing. I’d like to invite those of you who are reading it to help me with this, and to inform me if you find anything that you think is a typo or other error. And don’t forget to plan to come to Mitchell’s Coffee House on November 29 for some delicious coffee and yummies, and to visit my book-signing. It’s during the Downtown Lakeland Farmer’s Market on the Saturday of Thanksgiving weekend.

CHANGE OF DATE FOR MITCHELL’S COFFEE HOUSE!

Due to circumstances beyond my control, I’ll be signing books at Mitchell’s on November 29, the last Saturday in the month, during the Lakeland Farmer’s Market downtown (NOT on November 22, as originally announced).

That’s Thanksgiving weekend, so while you’re replenishing all your veggies after the big feast, come to the market, and poke your head into Mitchell’s for some delicious coffee and yummies, and look over my books.

Gotta count those blessings…..

I think it’s actually a wonderful thing to be so busy at my age, and spending all of the last few days either out of town visiting old friends who asked me to bring some copies of my new book up so we could visit while I signed them…

… or staying at home after a few morning appointments, and spending hours doing chores that are time-consuming to accomplish but that. must be done. The one I did Monday is a monthly chore, and the one today only has to be done every four months. I’ll only say that they’re medical-related, one for him, one for me, and that it is greatly rewarding to have them done and their results available.

My morning appointments have been to a physical therapist, who is putting me through the wringer at my request, helping me to get more flexible and stronger. We’re working on talking the muscles into holding the bones where they are. Twice a week for the rest of the month. He is enjoying giving me homework, which is only fair, since I gave so much out during my career.

This morning I was remembering Kippy and her medals at Special Olympics. This picture is in the book, The Girl Who Talked Too Much, but it’s not in color.

Book Signing at Mitchell’s Coffee House

I’ll be signing books at Mitchell’s Coffee House on Saturday, November 29, which is Thanksgiving weekend. You know you’re going to have to replenish your stores with luscious veggies after the big feast, so plan to come up for the Farmers’ Market that morning. I hope lots of you will be able to come. As well as The Girl Who Talked Too Much, which recently came out on Amazon, I’ll have American Governess and both of my poetry chapbooks with me . To buy the books, you can click on the titles, or just come and see me there

Shanghaied

A British 'press gang' bopped
my great-forefather's head
in fifteen-something.
Saving that, he'd have been dead
with the members of his family
in the plagues of sixteen-three.

The Royal Navy's methods of recruitment
may have changed,
but each time God's been
a little rough with me,

I remember Great-Ancestor
was shanghaied against his will
and so survived;
and otherwise
there'd be no me.

I emailed my cousin in Bermuda this morning because I wondered what effects the island had suffered from the passing of the colossal Hurricane Melissa last night, and I haven’t heard back from him. Perhaps the power is out.

I wrote the poem above about ancestor of mine who, as a young man in London, was ‘impressed’ into the Royal Navy. At the end of a career as a sailor, he chose to retire to Bermuda in the mid-1600’s, since his family at home had been wiped out by the Black Plague. My grandmother, a direct descendant, was born there in 1877, and came to New York City to train as a nurse. Her story is in my new book.

Unexpected changes are the spice of life, right? ….Right?

Having irritated me last week by assuring me (live, by phone) that the order of my new book, The Girl Who Talked Too Much, wouldn’t be delivered to me until halfway through November, Amazon has now informed me that the shipment will come tomorrow!

I’ve set up a book-signing party at Mitchell’s Coffee House in downtown Lakeland for November 29, so I’ll have plenty of time to prepare. That’s on a Saturday, when there is a fine Farmer’s Market/Flea Market going on, so mark your calendars and plan to get your veggies while looking in on me! If you’ve already got one of the books, bring it by and I’ll transcribe it just for you.

I’ve found that adjusting to such things with acceptance and humor is one of the secrets of having a long life. I mean, after all, they could have announced that they wouldn’t arrive until several weeks later than originally predicted.

Thinking about it, I’m pretty sure that the October 29 delivery date was the likeliest all along, but in the interests of, shall we say, covering their nether regions, they named a date several weeks out. Then they could look efficient when the books came earlier.

At least I’ve already seen one, finally. My son Adriaan had it and American Governess shipped to me, so that I could sign them while he was here last week, which I did. It looks great!.

He and his wife were here for his 40th high school reunion. The last one he attended was the 10th, and as I remember, the 40th is the one at which you’re struck by how much older everybody got, and shocked by the list of those who are no longer with us. And you’re thankful if you’re still going strong.

Come to think of it, if my class were still having reunions, we’d be having the 70th in a couple of years. Yoicks!

Kippy at Christmastime

Kippy, title character in my memoir, The Girl Who Talked Too Much, often wore an expression I thought of as ‘attentive curiosity’ with her eyebrows shot up into her bangs. Here, in an unusual silent moment, she was watching a Christmas program on TV. Just in case she had something to say, her right hand was ready to reflect the sound back to her ears by covering her mouth.